At his aunt's anniversary party, he makes no effort to have his wife join him at the head table, then doesn't understand why she's hurt and embarrassed.

My husband came to use the washroom and asked me if I wanted anything. I told him I’d like a drink, but he didn’t come back until he needed to use the washroom again. I told him to take me home and he could return to the event.

So, at the last minute, my husband was asked to sit at the head table with his aunt and her husband. I was not invited to do that, and my husband didn’t ask if I could sit with them. The room was full and there were no other seats for me,