Affleck and Lopez have been a steady presence in the lives of each other’s kids in the last few years, so it makes sense that they would make the effort for Affleck’s three kids: Violet, 19, Seraphina, 15, and Samuel, 12 and Lopez’s two kids:16-year-old twins Max and Emme.

This holiday season, the unexpected happened when Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck exchanged thoughtful gifts despite their ongoing divorce proceedings. According to Page Six, Affleck went above and beyond in selecting a gift for JLo,

Affleck went book shopping to find a gift that reportedly is personally meaningful for his soon-to-be ex-wife.