This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Tanya Pushkine, a 61-year-old wedding-vows writer and officiant known as "The Vow Whisperer" based in New York City, about her job.

The couple exchanged personalized vows in front of more than 200 of their ... Mills stunned in a custom wedding gown created by Justin Alexander Signature, featuring long sleeves and a low back.